Story of my life – from childhood hobbies to business!

Have you wondered what is the story behind this website and all projects displayed there?
Have you wondered why I choose to offer services on my own rather than getting employed in a company?
Have you wondered why I do have a great portfolio of building designs but do not offer such services anymore?
Read this page in whole…
Read About me if you did not read already, BEFORE going into very detailed life story.

Shortcuts: first website – new website – earning first money – business breakthrough

Note: I have rewritten this page several times during 2013 and ever year onward after few WEIRD and RUDE questions from visitors (example). You can compare with original About Me page… hope now it is clear and will avoid inappropriate remarks, if is not, please contact me and ask more specific what else I should write about me!

My life in pre-internet era

I am born in 1989 and from early age I developed high skills of communication, self-teaching, creative and artistic talents, later figured out that this can be called Savant syndrome. In my kindergarten years I already knew multiply and division. At 5-8 years old I made a couple of drawings on paper and wrote few notebooks. At 12 years old an IQ test resulted 130-140. In conclusion, a genius little boy that my parents did not know how to treat properly.

My mom is in finance, dad in engineering, grandma from mom in pharmacy, grandpa also in engineering. Other relatives were not involved in my life. I do not have brothers and sisters and my parents also do not have.

But unfortunately I lived under a tight-regulated familiar regime, my parents “love” me and guide me in life but doing more bad than good, according local friends as well visitors of this website.

My family was very private, neighbors were not knowing much info about my parents, and I was wondering who is living behind our apartment walls. My family monitored me to know every person I interact with, sent me to school, took me from school, discouraged me from making friends in school, for many years supervised me all time when I was outdoor supposedly to protect from “bad guys”. However, we had about 40 friends, other families with children (people trusted by my parents). They were spread around city so we were meeting (in best case) one day per week when my parents arranged meeting. This was my only chance to play and socialize with other children.

I was happy to go to kindergarten and play with other kids, but once started school, the happiness gone. In 1st grade I was among best students, so smart that I self-taught in advance what the school was going to teach me, without play I saw school boring, and a couple of incidents, including violence from schoolmates, made me afraid to go to school, my parents were also afraid send me to school where they cannot supervise me, advised me to avoid leaving classroom and don’t interact with anyone except teacher, making me to no longer see point of going to school, after 2 years we decided to continue via home schooling. So all what you see on website, including architecture, is self-taught.

My family bought me a lot of toys, not understanding that I am a social person and cannot play alone, since friends visits were rare, my social life was limited to my parents and grandparents, annoying them talking almost all time and asking them to play with me, when they had other responsibilities.

What else I shall do, rather than staying at computer and develop various hobbies? These hobbies turned me into an internet entrepreneur earning more money than my parents. But this took few years because I did not had anyone to help me and the restrictions imposed by parents just made my life harder.

My dad bought first computer in 1995 to work in AutoCAD and Microsoft Office, but that times I was living most of time at grandparents home, playing on computer with my dad only ocasionally. I can say that I started using computer alone in 1997 and until 2005 I did not had internet connection.

Note: someone commented why I got internet connection so late? There are rumors that was a way for my parents to limit / control my education and prevent me to interact freely with the world (why?), another rumor was to protect me from BAD side of internet (example: porn websites), but actually they protected from a lot of GOOD things. They said that internet is expensive, but we were spending more money on books and magazines “to educate me” than the cost of internet connection, not counting incomparable amount of educational material on the internet. Thus, my parents controlled the info I had access to. Today even if I am legal age and I have full freedom of using internet, I never look for porn… simply because I hate porn!

Despite of limited access to information, I made numerous creative works on computer (or maybe limited access encouraged me to create things myself instead of downloading from internet). I had a special interest for collecting data, writing book-like stuff in Word and tables in Excel, also drawings in Paint and AutoCAD. I did not enjoyed playing games much (unlike most teenagers who buy computers only for gaming, chatting and watching porn).

I was working voluntarily, as hobby to fill up my time, with NO intention to earn money. I always wanted to learn new things, other than what we are taught at school, but I was limited to the information my parents were giving me. I had no knowledge about business or marketing, did not knew that there could be people willing to pay my works, but anyway during childhood my parents would not let me to have own money (read below Road to online business).

I asked my dad if the things I was drawing on paper can be done on computer, he said yes and we were “working together” by telling to my dad what to write in Word or draw in AutoCAD. But shortly after this, dad allowed me to use computer myself. I learned AutoCAD by watching my dad working.

  • In 1996 I was drawing in Paint and already decided that when I will grow up, to get a job as “Paint designer” (that’s funny!).
  • In 1998 I surprised my dad showing an AutoCAD drawing that he did not understood where it came from, it was made by me! I hoped that some day I will have a job in graphic / CAD design like him. Note: grandpa brought me a lot of engineering drawings (blueprints) from his workplace, which further increased my interest for CAD drawing.
  • Since 1998 I made a geography encyclopedia in Word and Excel, tables with country data, city population, list of natural features, etc. This because I had a passion for studying geographic atlases that I had at home. Since I connected to internet in 2005 and discovered Wikipedia offering same kind of data, and up-to-date, I abandoned most of my geography works.
  • Since 1999 I got an interest for cars. I made a Car Encyclopedia in Word and Excel collecting technical specs and do data analysis, and also I designed my own car models in AutoCAD. I continued working even after connecting to internet because no comparable stuff exist on internet, and in 2012 I had a surprise discovery that I can make a business from selling car databases to companies and web developers, but only after extensive transformation from the original hobby into a format usable for commercial purposes.
  • Since 2001 I design buildings in AutoCAD (and I am not referring at drawing floor plan of my own home or existing homes, but at making original building concepts, although the drawing itself was quite simple, only wall axis and doors, 3D models also simple). I lost the interest for architecture in 2003 due to lack of educational material, but returned in 2008 with Teoalida’s Virtual City, made by researching housing via internet, which was so impressive, that people now hire me to work for them, turning this hobby into architecture business since 2012.
  • Since 2003 I got a passion for urban explorer and real estate. Being unhappy of the maps available in bookstores, I made myself better maps using AutoCAD and colored in Paint, and this evolved in 2008 in studying Housing in Singapore and Housing around the World for purpose of learning architecture and developing my Virtual City. This included writing articles with my research shown on this website, plus an Excel database with buildings from Singapore, which I turned into business in 2014 by selling it to real estate companies.
  • I love (listening to) music and since 2005 I compiled a music database in Excel, rating songs and making top of best artists using complex mathematical formulas. Rarely updating after 2012 considering an useless project.
  • Since 1998 until 2002 I was watching and playing football, and again making in Word and Excel database and analysis about matches. In 2002 my parents throw away my collection of football magazines, putting an END to this hobby. Even if this did not happened, I would have abandoned it in 2005 due to content existing on internet.
  • Since 1995 I kept a kind of diary on paper, notebooks, starting from 2000 also writing on computer various events from my real life, but different from what today blogs looks like. A dream diary I also started in 2002.
  • In parallel with writing events from my real life, I was also writing fictional stories since 1996. Once starting using computer I wrote in 1997-1999 a series of humorous adventures in the form of conversations, inspired from stupid things done by my schoolmates but using invented names, another series written in 2000 featuring an unnamed man and a computer, this time written as third-person story, and another series written in 2001-2003 again in the form of humorous adventures in the form of conversation between 2 idiots.

Why I was doing all the above things? Some people may say that I had too much free time, blaming for wasting time doing stupid hobbies instead of spending time to work for money. This was TRUE, unfortunately.

When friends were visiting us, I was showing my works (is this a good or bad behavior?). I was often praised so I continued to do same things (there are rumors that the friends were TOLD by my family to praise me whatever stupid things I do, to make me happy) instead of constructive critics to do something more useful. However few friends said that I am talented, my works should be published, sell a book, etc. But my parents NEVER encouraged me to do something productive or to charge money when someone ask me help. They were against making my name public to the world. They encouraged me to continue the creative hobbies on computer, promising that some day we will publish them in a book, but this never happened. Just showing them to our friends circle (note: they may wanted to give me a solitary occupation to stop me disturbing them, instead of letting me to have a social life).

During childhood, the only form of professional activity was helping my parents at their work. But they never rewarded me with anything to keep my interest for professional work, instead I was working at the things of my personal interest described above (this could have made my parents to think that I cannot hold responsibility of a job?).

My family installed internet connection in 2005, after we connected to neighborhood LAN. I was 16 years old, was a total surprise for me. For first time I could speak freely with people unsupervised by parents and make own friends, and play multiplayer games in LAN. In contrast with the family’s friends which were (told to) praising my works, my new online friends criticized me for doing useless works, plus a lot of critics towards my parents, assimilating my family with North Korean dictator, accusing my parents for being too conservative, keeping me behind technology, limiting access to information, discouraging me to use internet properly and make a living, etc.

For the first time I realized that I had numerous misconceptions about LIFE, what is a normal life and how BAD are my parents. But the internet connection means unlimited access to information and this allowed me to lead towards BUSINESS…

Moving away from parents and starting a second life

In 2005 dad scandals made my mom to flee away. Most people thinks that divorce is a bad thing, but actually it was my chance to do things never imagined before. I also abandoned my parents and I do not want to see them anymore. In 2007 I moved in another apartment to live alone, and being 18 years old I was looking for a job to support myself, meantime grandparents were visiting me regularly to bring food and paying utilities.

Even if I escaped from parents, I continued to have same kind of troubles with grandparents, giving me orders and threatening me that will send me in foster care if I do not obey all orders, for example do not go outside home alone, do not invite friends when I am alone, if I wanted to go somewhere they followed me and supervised all interactions with other people. They never gave me money so anything I wanted to buy I shall request them, effectively having control what to buy and what not.

But living alone allowed me to have a secret second life, violating grandparents rules, creating my own social life by inviting friends at home and leaving home without family consent, making money online, going shopping for first time, etc… things normal for a 10-year old but in case of me, even at 20-year old, my grandparents made a huge scandal when they caught me having things not bought by them, accusing me for interacting with strangers.

My computer and internet was the only place where I could do what I want without being caught, so let’s make money online. I was not familiarized with freedom, despite that I had connection to internet since 2005, first 2 years I interacted only with people from Local Area Network, in a chatroom where I earned reputation of “computer guru”. I shared computer with my dad and afraid that will upset him if I interact with foreigners. After moving, in 2007-2008 I started looking for friends all over the country and playing games on international servers. Most of early overseas friends were met in gaming. I became fluent in english thanks to gaming. Since 2007 I started looking for ways to make money over internet, posting in forums under fake names getting mini-jobs that can be done without legal contract (to make sure that my family will not be aware), earning several hundred dollars in 1 year. Until 2009 did not had a personal website.

Despite of having internet connection, I continued showing my works to friends by sending e-mails and instant messaging to each person. Sometimes I took a laptop with me when I visited friends, especially to ones with no internet connection, to show my works.

I sent emails to various companies, showing drawings made by me in AutoCAD, hoping to get an online part-time job. But they were looking for full-time employees which I could not do without family consent.

In 2009 grandparents offered me to open a bank account in their name to get paid for working online so they can withdraw money and buy stuff. These idiots want to manage my money! I refused, because had already a PayPal account since 2007, and for reason I keep my business secret from family, being afraid that they may take my money.

My first website – – free hosting

Friends encouraged me to publish my works on internet, so friends (also potential business partners) to view my work anytime, also to access my works from friends’ computers when I visit them.

So… this is how I started this website, that has to represent my image!
(despite of fear that my family will cut my internet connection if they see what I did)

I choose to host my website on free hosting, under address By 2012 I realized that this was a huge mistake, lack SEO features and limited the growth of my website.

I made this stupid choice because I had friends with blogs hosted on Blogspot and WordPress, posting their diary and stupid stuff, personally I wanted something more professional, a WEBSITE with static pages rather than a BLOG with posts sorted by date. Later I saw numerous professional blogs. Still, blogs are good if they cover one topic, newsy websites updated regularly, while my website cover multiple topics.

I started website in April 2009, originally having 5 pages, with a small example of works:
– Home page, with a list of the following pages.
– Teoalida’s Housing (floor plans and 3D models of apartment blocks).
– Teoalida’s Palace (3D model in AutoCAD).
– Teoalida’s Cars (again 3D models in AutoCAD).
– Teoalida in The Sims 2 (house models built in a game).
By August 2009 my website was completed, with 10 pages.

The purpose of website was originally to show off my hobby works to friends, NOT to promote services directly via website, instead I tried to get jobs in CAD design in forums and freelance websites where I linked my website for portfolio.

Because too few people are interested in my works and floor plans of imaginary buildings (perhaps architecture students and companies hiring AutoCAD designers), I decided in late 2009 to add more pages, to get more traffic and increase website ranking. Pages writing about real world: Countries & Cities (now Housing Around the World) and Singapore HDB housing study which included dozens of real floor plans.

I constantly added new pages and more content on existing pages.

My first website with blue theme (2009-2011)
Left photo show my custom-made navigation bar vs Webs’ default navigation bar (right photo)

My first website with white theme (Jan-May 2012)

My first website after expanding navigation bar (since Jun 2012)
Was a good or bad idea?

Each page began with an introduction about myself, the first page was the “About Me” itself… this became a TROUBLE as the website grew beyond its original purpose. Many visitors were not interested to see personal websites, personal stories, etc, this leaded a high bounce rate.

in early times I sucked at SEO, the visitor traffic was rising but Google sent the visitors in wrong pages and they quickly left (example: searching “Singapore 4-room floorplan” and landing in Apartment Design page, searching “100 sq m house plan” and landing in Singapore page). lack SEO features, I could not set different page title than URL or META description, the pages were originally named to look best in the navigation bar. But in 2010 I got idea to make custom HTML navigation bar, I could write anything as navigation links, and changed page title (which is URL too) to more SEO-friendly, as seen in above screenshots (example: Teoalida’s Cars > Car Design, Housing-Current > Apartment Design). Traffic went over 100 visitors per day and bounce ratio was reduced.

New website – – paid hosting and .com domain is one of the most-limited hosting services. See my own Review. Beside lacking SEO features, free users get 500 MB monthly bandwidth (if you exceed bandwidth you warning messages to upgrade or you risk to be suspended, the actual suspension happens only if you exceed twice the limit, and last until end of month). My website reached again 100 daily visitors in January 2012 and exceeded these 500 MB). I upgraded the bandwidth to 1.5 GB in March… but in September 2012 I reached over 200 daily visitors and exceeded bandwidth once again. I had enough Webs Credits to buy 1 GB bandwidth 3 more times, BUT… is this is the RIGHT thing to do?

In 2011 I bought domain name then realized that I cannot put it on website unless I pay premium account. See also: a Funny chat with a IDIOT who blame me for not putting on Webs website!

In August 2012 I started to develop a new website based on WordPress platform, using domain name and hosted on (free hosting with PHP support) but they suspended my website 3 times due to too high traffic and high CPU usage so in November I upgraded to PAID hosting I was very happy with Hosting24 services, for just $4.84 per month my website was running with over 1000 daily visitors.

On the former website, the main landing pages were Singapore HDB Floor Plans (35% of total traffic) and Singapore BTO List (25%), all other pages were max 10%. The home page was the About Me page (because website was originally intended as personal portfolio) but it was landing page for just 3% of traffic (as 2012), mostly my friends or people who bookmarked the URL. This turned into a PROBLEM: many people reading articles about Singapore (60% of total visitors) though that my website is an encyclopedia or a real estate agency, being not interested in the person behind it, if they remember the URL and next day they simply type, they will see the About Me page shows my portfolio, may go away thinking that typed wrong URL.

SOLUTION: for the new website I made About Me as a subpage, while on home page I put articles about Singapore real estate, to make home page main landing page and get ranking in Google, planning that after a year to put my architectural designs on home page, to do business. But architecture never been a successful business so the articles about Singapore will remain on home page… forever!

In February 2013 I rebuilt The Sims 2 (a category with 53 posts) as sub-website, separate WordPress installation, with own banner and own menus. Same thing done in April 2013 for Car Database (3 pages, which grew to 30+ pages as 2016). Why? Because people looking for a car database are not interested in the rest of my works such as architecture and real estate. Someone who is interested in American cars may accidentally click the menu World > North America, which is a page about real estate, no cars.

Screenshots of my website from May 2014

And from October 2017 (just before changing theme to Graphene 2.0)

The road to online business

My family was providing me basic needs so in theory I did not needed to work and have own money. Moreover they did not allowed me to have a job or earn money in my name. However, some things my parents refused to buy, this is why I was dreaming to earn my own money.

During childhood, my parents asked me to do various works, but did not rewarded me with anything, thus I lost interest to do their job instead of my hobbies such as drawing in AutoCAD and compiling car databases, both distributed freely via friends (probably this made my parents to not trust me that I can perform at work thus banned me from having a job).

Probably the most useful work was the city maps made in AutoCAD in 2005-2007, which today I regret distributing freely. Were used also by companies, for commercial purposes, who shall pay the rights of use. Several people offered me money for rights to use the maps, but due to my family regime, although I could meet people (strangers) under parents’ supervision and get paid, my parents would not let the money in my hands, so I had no reason to charge money.

Since 2006 I got also few legal job offers, but getting employed without family consent was impossible so I had to say NO to any job that could not be done from front of computer.

First money earned was in 2007, when PayPal allowed unverified accounts to send money (previously you could only receive money, I had no reason to receive money if I cannot spend it). I started posting in forums, looking for work. Although my dominant activity was making drawings in AutoCAD, it was a non-profit hobby, and the little money earned was from webdesign-related services. I was not designing websites, but rather got paid to add content in someone’s website, create backlinks, submit it to directories, translate articles, etc (boring jobs). I also tried freelance websites where I linked my portfolio website and bid about 10 projects without winning any so I aborted. Paid-To-Click (BUX) sites brought some money too. Having no credit card, the PayPal money could be spent only online, and in 2008 I went shopping for first time.

When I made my own website in 2009 to publish my portfolio online, I wrote on home page (About me) “most of works are made for passion, but I am ready to work for you” and contact email below. But the potential customers were coming from Google in subpages and very few clicked the About me page to see my contact info. Only in 2012 I added on every page BIG RED messages with what services I offer, plus contact email in website banner. Only now customers started contacting me. But the business was still not successful, for example many people looking for house plans do not realize that I am CAD designer and I can work for them, they confuse my personal website with the websites who are collecting floor plans found in Google Images, they rely only on what they see on website, if they cannot find a suitable house plan at me, they go away instead of contacting me to design a house for them (and pay me for the architectural design service).

In 2010 and 2011 I had almost no income, spending my time on AutoCAD design hobby and playing games. I realized that making money online is difficult, my friends encouraged me to call authorities to take action against my grandparents, so I can get a job. But authorities considered that if my family give me basic needs, everything is OK, ignoring my request to have freedom to get a job.

First major work done for a customer (opposite of works done from personal interest) was in 2011, an insurance company requested to expand my Hong Kong Public Housing Database made voluntarily, by adding private housing estates. I made the mistake to work voluntarily without agreeing about price. Only after I spent about 100 hours I decided to sell the database for $200 but the customer didn’t agreed to pay, so I kept the database for myself and one year later I published it on website for sale. PS: I do not complain, I didn’t had other paid projects anyway so the time wasn’t wasted, working in Excel is a pleasure and I made also the Singapore Housing Database since 2009 voluntarily, without having any customer requesting to do this job.

The business success came in 2012 after I discovered the website chat software in January 2012 (a MUST-HAVE for websites that sell products or offer services), allowing me to interact with website visitors and engaging them to request work from me, understanding market demands.

In June 2012 an architect impressed by my 3D building models invited me to collaboration and wanted to promote me in his future directory of architects despite that I am NOT architect and I was presenting myself as graphic designer. He pushed me on wrong track into a career that I NEVER enjoyed (read full story, and if he did not came, other architects would push me anyway). I changed titles from “AutoCAD graphic design services” to “architectural design services”. After working for few people for free, I started charging money for services that takes more than 1 hour, but I rarely got paid, some people insulting me for refusing to work for free. In 2012 I earned for first time a 4-digit sum, mostly from AutoCAD drawings made for Michael Lee.

The chat software helped me to discover that various companies are looking to pay for automobile data. I spent a large amount of time transforming my hobby-made car databases into a product usable for companies, and in 2013 car database sales exceeded AutoCAD earnings. Never imagined before!

Moving to paid hosting and WordPress platform, expanding website content and doing SEO increased traffic from 100 daily visitors in early 2012 to 500 daily visitors in mid-2013. In October 2013, due to incorrectly adding ALT tags to all images on website (keyword stuffing), Google dropped my website from search results, traffic felt down to 150 daily visitors (read more: dealing with Google Penalty). Until traffic was restored I read a lot of SEO articles, becoming myself a SEO expert and raising to 800 daily visitors in 2014, biggest rise being in car database section.

The situation became clear: making databases is more profitable than architecture, a database require major effort as initial investment but once finished it require a minimum effort to update regularly, and thanks to SEO and volume of sales, the effort is paid off over time.

In February 2015 I discovered some things done by my family without my consent, lying me, lying authorities, doing a number of things that I do not want to publish here because would damage my image, this caused psychological trauma and sleep disorder, losing interest for living and working for people, I did not made new projects in architecture for few months and delayed database projects to contact authorities and save my life. Finally, authorities involved into family scandal.

Another scandal broke up in 2016 when my family figured out that I have a large sum of money, had to disclose them that I am running a secret online business for 8 years. Since mom and dad never allowed me to have own money, lied people and did illegal stuff in attempt to gain access to my bank accounts, without success. Seems that living away from my parents do not protect me from being abused.

After all this bullshit, my fucking parents told me that I CAN go out of home alone and have a legal job, under some conditions. Too late! I am no longer looking for a full-time job because I am making more money from my hobbies than full-time jobs in my country. Note: I was leaving home alone occasionally for 5 years while family know nothing.

Whenever authorities will take more actions against my family, so I can enjoy my life without conditions and restrictions, we will see…

Business breakthrough

I returned in architecture business in late 2015, but two projects started in late 2014, expanding European car database from 20 to 40+ columns to sell at double price, and reviving the Singapore HDB Database (made voluntarily in 2009-2010 and left unfinished), each one taking few hundred hours of manual data entry, when finished in late 2015 they doubled my income, exceeding my parents salaries and achieving my target of $1000 per month to be financially independent from my family.

In August 2015 I learned web scraping, allowing me to create new databases using scripts that automatically extract data from websites. I created additional car databases for America, India, Middle East, motorcycles database, real estate databases, etc, and offering web scraping services, creating custom databases in any required field. My income hit $2000 per month in 2016.

Lots of people told me that I have a great talent in design and I can get rich from architecture, wishing me to pursue this career and go to university. I am glad that I did NOT went to architecture university, I would have been a poor architect. I met more architects and they told me that barely hit $2000 per month and this after being in business for 10-20 years, I further lost interest for architecture. What I earned from a house design could earn from web scraping services at 1/10 effort. I had to raise design rates but would have been stupid to charge higher than professional architects given by my lack of university, and raising prices does not solve the main problem: non-paying customers. Their high experience and low prices made me ashamed to continue my architecture career, I choose to outsource my customers to other architects for a referral fee (read more: retire from architecture).

As architectural designer, I was overwhelmed by bad customers, 90% of them were located in developing countries of Asia and Africa, and 90% of them did not wanted to pay my prices. Customers are ordinary people with no ethics, disrespecting architects, refusing to pay in advance, requesting a sketch before paying, simply trying to understand their project requirements to make a sketch and quote price for complete project means wasting 30 min – 1h and fail to convince customer to pay, effectively making architecture a waste of time.

Starting from 2015 I choose to not make more free sketches to attempt to convince customers to pay, and work only for the few ones paying in advance. Some paying customers asked so many revisions that some house projects spread over whole month, too much for the price we initially agreed. I disabled chat pop-up for section and I was even thinking to delete all my architectural works to make sure no more customers will waste my time asking for free / cheap architecture services, but later decided to keep them as educational material for students and make public my bad experiences.

As data provider, most customers are company managers from Europe and America, with ethics and respect for my work. In web scraping services I also had several customers who requested work and ran away after work was completed without paying it, but I published database on website and other people have purchased it.

Currently I have few dozens projects (databases) and few hundreds customers buy them every year, generating few thousand dollars per month depending by volume of sales rather than amount of work. I spend several hours every day updating databases regularly and answer chats and emails from customers looking to purchase databases. Usually takes just few minutes to answer questions, without requiring any extra work from my side to convince them to pay. If the data suit their needs they will talk with their boss and sooner or later they will pay. Some people never contact me, they just pay and receive database automatically. Of total people contacting me for databases, 30% do make a purchase.

In 2017 and 2018 I have been contacted by several big companies looking to employ me for design jobs in ArchiCAD, Blender, Chief Architect, Revit, etc. There could have been companies looking to employ me in early years too, but they turned away for some reasons (they asked me “Do you use software X?” and I answered “No, I use AutoCAD” without realizing that they want to employ me, I could have said “I can learn new software if there is a business opportunity“). I came in conclusion that one of reasons for failure of my design business is that I stick on AutoCAD which is a bit outdated software.

Working for such company would guarantee a constant payment and in <2015 was a better option than working for ad-hoc customers who may not pay my services. However, they wanted full-time employment and most likely would have overloaded me with too much work, which as 2017 could not do due to my database projects, I can only work part-time and is questionable if the hourly pay is high enough compared with what I am currently earning from sale of databases.

I try to avoid projects with one-time payment (unless the payment is very high) and reduce time spent working for other people, to focus on my own projects that help large number of people at once even if I am not directly paid, for example Map of HDB blocks created in 2017 that does help whole 5 million population of Singapore with free information, increasing audience on website, and may indirectly increase sales of databases.

Today life

Currently I can leave home anytime I want, but doing this I would not be able to answer chats, losing sales and customers. I avoid projects that require travelling, I try to stay home as much I can, going out for social life or leisure activities max 1 day per week, except when I had a must-do activity such as driving school, when I left home daily. I got driving license in 2018.

I love walking around the city, malls, parks, mountains, etc, taking myself photos in every trip, but not selfies from arm length, rather put my photo camera on various objects so most photos show me from feet to head. But my visual appearance is not very good from business point of view. Due to this reason I prefer to NOT make my photos public on this business website or to appear in front of video cameras. I love meeting as many people is possible, but only after we chat online, so people will know what kind of man I am and do not judge by visual appearance.

I am also looking for a woman (girlfriend), but need to be careful to choose one that does respect my hobbies and wants to do business together, NOT a bitch who stay with men just for sex, wasting my time and eating money.


My parents gave me high IQ and a computer at an early age, and I turned into a businessman earning more than parents in my 20s. But I could have been a businessman at much early age, if these idiots would have helped me instead of putting restrictions to make my life harder, and making me to suffer whole life from psychological trauma. Or at least, if I found chat software earlier and move my website from shitty to paid hosting and WordPress platform earlier, I was richer today.

Should I be thankful to my parents or blame them?

I wish to have another family, a family that help me improving my life rather than restricting it, continue my education, and live in a house with many people rather than living alone.

I would like to know if reading this story make you more willing to work with me, or contrary…leave comments!


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    • SALVATORE on January 4, 2019 at 1:07 pm
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    …va dove ti porta il cuore !

    • SALVATORE on January 4, 2019 at 1:11 pm
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    …non so se quello che hai scritto sia realtà o fantasia, comunque è affascinante, complimenti. Sono italiano (Sicilia), amo la Romania, ammiro gli autodidatta e ho un grande rispetto pe le persone intelligenti, in specialmente per quelli più intelligenti di me, che sono tanti. Ad maiora

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  1. I agree with Savatore about Directions. Being a Singaporean, I find your story fascinating , at the same time similar to mine.

    At age 23, I left home for 5 years with $300 in my pocket, travelled to 7-8 countries. Sometimes living on food left over by customers in restaurant. Today: I stopped working for 4 years and hope to move out of SG within 8 years time.

    I think there are many (today) with generation gap and I guess that’s because some of our parents are born around or prior to WW2, the Internet era starter after 90’s and the evolution of Communication comes in many forms including Smart Phones, Social Media … etc.

    You have already able to manage Self. As you mentioned: Move forward with Self-Education (Inside-OUT: See IKE below), Seek Mentorship, Develop Co-Existence with People with the Similar Interest, Passion, Profession. In today’s World, there is no need to be Certified (Outside-IN) unless, your intention is to seek a Job. What you are doing is Perfect; refine with this Concept: IKE (Information-Knowledge-Experience).

    Have a great week ahead …

    • Flordeliza (Liza) Cailipan on February 20, 2019 at 7:45 am
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    Extra ordinary life story

    Best regards

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